Safety Tips

Before Meeting In Person

• Video Chat First: Always have a video call before meeting in person to verify identity.
• Stay on Platform: Use Pure Dating's messaging system until you feel comfortable sharing personal contact info.
• Research Your Match: Do a quick social media search to verify consistency in their story.
• Never Share Financial Info: Never send money or share bank details, regardless of the story.

During Your First Meeting

• Choose Public Places: Meet in busy, public locations like cafes, restaurants, or parks.
• Tell a Friend: Inform someone you trust about your plans, who you're meeting, and where you'll be.
• Drive Yourself: Use your own transportation to maintain independence and control.
• Stay Sober: Limit alcohol consumption to stay alert and make clear decisions.

Recognizing Red Flags

• Pressure for personal information too quickly
• Inconsistent stories or vague answers to simple questions
• Requests for money or financial assistance
• Reluctance to video chat or meet in public
• Too-good-to-be-true declarations of love or affection early on
• Refusal to verify their profile or share basic information

Report Suspicious Activity

If something feels off, trust your instincts. Use our reporting feature immediately. Our safety team reviews all reports within 24 hours and takes appropriate action. Your vigilance helps keep our community safe for everyone.